Discover your confidence and step into you.

I help Queer, Kinky, ENM/Poly folks gain confidence and improve communication skills so that they can have longer lasting relationships, hotter sex and never be afraid to show the world who they truly are!

Have you ever felt

Lonely

Stuck and unsatisfied in your relationships, felt lonely in friendships and community?

Insecure

Afraid to express your feelings, afraid to ask for what you want because you didn't have the confidence?

Neglected

Spent too much time caring for or prioritizing other people's needs over caring for your own?

Imagine a life where these

melted away

and instead you felt

Fulfilled

You find the partner(s) of your dreams, you have great sex regularly and feel supported by lovers and friends

Empowered

You know exactly what you want and how to get it, and are never afraid to ask for what you need.

Confident

You are your own best friend, prioritize your needs, and are never afraid to tell the world who you truly are.

Hi, I’m Fox

A few short years ago I was a completely different person. I had just gotten out of abusive relationship #3 and I felt like a shell of a human being. As I watched my ex walk out of my door I made a promise; I would never let myself become this empty ever again.

As I began my healing journey, I found that my fractures extended beyond my love life. I was drained by my career, terrified of my creative self, stunted and lonely in my sexual expression and had no idea how to feel safe in any of my interactions. I had compromised myself so much for others that I lost myself in the process. 

This, in turn, shook my confidence in all aspects of my life, holding me back from pursuing a life I deeply desired and most importantly, denying my safety to express my queerness. In order to live the life I truly wanted, I had to reconnect with the genuine, inner me.

My coaching is centered around helping folks to reconnect with themselves and step into an empowered life that they love.

As a queer, poly/ENM, BDSM educator I bring a unique perspective to my coaching practice that creates a safer space for clients to explore new techniques and discover self expression. No matter who you are, I work collaboratively to help you gain the tools to connect with your inner most powerful self. I believe that healing is a journey, and I aim to serve as a gentle guide to support my clients along the way.

Embark on a journey

tailor made for You.

Step 1: Give your heart its stage

Congratulations! This is your first step to reconnecting with you. For the first few weeks we will work to gently uncover aspects of your life that are causing you stress or holding you back. This is the space where you *finally* get to put down the heavy weight you’ve been carrying and begin to embrace a lighter, more authentic version of yourself.

Step 2: Fall back in love with you

You should always be your first priority, and for these next few weeks we lean into your strengths, help you reconnect with the exciting, powerful, beautiful person that you are who deserves love and care and has the right to TAKE UP SPACE *just as much as everyone else*. Your feelings are valid, your needs are valid, and this is where you get to identify them and start to develop the vocabulary you need to express them!

Step 3: Fill your cup

This is where the magic begins. In this module we will create a powerful set of tools to help you reach your goals. With some examples such as using affirmations (that you truly believe), identifying and practicing boundaries and learning to use your voice we build a strong new platform for you to re-enter the world with confidence. This includes (but is not limited to): dealing with social anxiety, stepping into a new gender identity and learning to express your queerness and your desires.

Step 4: Embrace the new You

The home stretch! Now that you’ve built your new foundation it's time to put it into action! The last few weeks of this program are about supported practice. As you venture through your weeks we reflect on what felt different, what felt good, aspects that may need some time to strengthen and set you on your course to fly on your own. At this point you will be much better equipped to handle all of life’s challenges that come at you with newfound resilience and power!

Ready to take the first step?

Relationship with You
-Free!-

Join my Confidence Boot Camp 5 day challenge! A free guide to things you can start doing immediately to boost your confidence today!

Relationship with Others

Join Fear to Fearless

Struggling with social anxiety? I will give you a new perspective and multiple strategies to help manage social anxiety better in just 45 mins.

Ready to start coaching?

Join my 3 month program tailored just for you. We will start with a consultation, set a coaching course and then help you fall in love with you.

Relationship with You+Others

What’s it like to work with me?

  • Working with Fox has been nothing short of life changing! Their blend of empathy, directness, insight, and wisdom makes them a joy to work with. When I started coaching with them, I had a vague sense of directionlessness that I could barely put words to and had been struggling to unpack for months, if not years. Fox took me through that feeling, then several layers deeper, and helped me accept and put into motion changes that have made a huge impact in my life. Looking back three months later, I’m amazed at the progress they guided me through. I’m many times more assured in myself than I ever thought I would be and am more excited for what the future holds than I’ve ever been before!

    -Maya F

  • “Fox is an exceptionally talented and effective coach. During the course of my work with Fox, they were very good at understanding my goals and setting expectations up front, and then holding me accountable throughout. They listened actively and offered timely insights and suggestions that I could try out immediately. Fox is a natural empath and I always felt cared for, but never coddled during our coaching sessions. After working with Fox over three months, I emerged with a better understanding of my challenges as well as a set of tools to work through them. Overall, it was a great experience.”

    -Doug E

  • “First of all, let me say that Fox is an incredibly empathetic, and kind person. Before our sessions, I had no experience with BDSM and I was seeking some lessons on technique, but wasn’t sure what to expect.  Fox immediately put me at ease and very clearly explained the philosophy and the power dynamics. They also helped me work through a trigger from a past trauma that I didn’t even know was still affecting me.  I would recommend them to anyone who is interested in learning more about BDSM, and beyond that, anyone who wants to learn how to tap into something deeper and more meaningful within themselves and their sex lives.”

    -Sandra A

  • “When I first started working with Fox, I was lost in self-criticism and pessimism. I yearned to form connections but I doubted I had much to offer others, and I greatly feared rejection. So I kept sitting on the sidelines, living a safe but small and lonely life. Fox gently challenged my stuck ways of thinking to help me see my true worth. As I began liking myself more, I became less scared that others would reject me and I no longer felt the need to bend over backwards to win others’ approval. With Fox’s wise guidance and support, I not only began attending more events, but I also showed up at them in a more authentic and courageous way than before. I took risks in letting people see the real me and that paid off in deeper connections. While this process is still evolving, thanks to Fox I finally feel I’m on the right path. So if you want to make genuine changes in your life as I did, I highly recommend seeing how Fox can help guide and support your growth.”

    -Dan C